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Things that really bother me and I need to get off my chest.

September 9, 2009 By Mindy

9 Sep
  1. Liam is not an angel.  Neither is your kid.  They're just kids.
  2. Liam is not a special gift from God.  What does that make Juliana? And, how fucking presumptuous of you to assume what someone else's private beliefs are.
  3. There are no such things as death panels.
  4. You can be pro-choice and choose to have a child with Down syndrome.  The idea is not mutually exclusive.  Being pro-choice and having a child with Down syndrome does not make someone a horrible advocate for their child.  Or a bad parent.

There.  I feel better now.

I've felt all these things for, well, forever.  Except for #3 which is recent.  I'm tired of letting it fester.

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  1. cate says

    September 9, 2009 at 6:03 pm

    High-fiving you across the internet. Excellent post.

  2. Auntly H says

    September 9, 2009 at 9:06 pm

    rock on!

  3. knitterpated says

    September 9, 2009 at 10:02 pm

    Totally totally agree. Particularly with #4, which seems so hard for people to understand!

  4. knitteresq (from Ravelry) says

    September 10, 2009 at 12:41 pm

    Can you read my inner thoughts? The “angel” thing particularly bothers me since my son (who happens to have DS) is in his terrible two’s and frankly I am growing grey hairs chasing after him! I wish he was an angel!!!

  5. yeahso says

    September 11, 2009 at 12:08 am

    I’m with ya. I get #2 alot because he’s adopted – along with what a wonderful person I am for taking the child in. Bugs the crap out of me.

  6. Tricia says

    September 11, 2009 at 11:22 am

    awesome.

  7. Carrie says

    September 16, 2009 at 10:12 pm

    You rock.

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